Showing posts with label forgive. Show all posts
Showing posts with label forgive. Show all posts

Saturday, December 3, 2011

God' plan

At a fund-raising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children, the father of one of the school's students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question. "Everything God does is done with perfection. Yet, my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is God's plan reflected in my son?" The audience was stilled by the query. 
The father continued. "I believe," the father answered, "that when God brings a child like Shay into the world, an opportunity to realize the Divine Plan presents itself. And it comes in the way people treat that child." Then, he told the following story: Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they will let me play?" Shay's father knew that most boys would not want him on their team. But the father understood that if his son were allowed to play it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging. Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance from his teammates. Getting none, he took matters into his own hands and said, "We are losing by six runs, and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and I'll try to put him up to bat in the ninth inning." In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. At the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the outfield. Although no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base. Shay was scheduled to be the next at-bat. Would the team actually let Shay bat at this juncture and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that this was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball. However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher moved a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least be able to make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly toward Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball to the pitcher. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could easily have thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have ended the game. Instead, the pitcher took the ball and threw it on a high arc to right field, far beyond reach of the first baseman. Everyone started yelling, "Shay, run to first. Run to first." Never in his life had Shay ever made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled. Everyone yelled "Run to second, run to second!" By the time Shay was rounding first base, the right fielder had the ball. He could have thrown the ball to the second baseman for a tag. But the right fielder understood what the pitcher's intentions had been, so he threw the ball high and far over the third baseman's head. 
Shay ran towards second base as the runners ahead of him deliriously circled the bases towards home. As Shay reached second base, the opposing shortstop ran to him, turned him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third!" As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams were screaming, "Shay! Run home." Shay ran home, stepped on home plate and was cheered as the hero, for hitting a "grand slam" and winning the game for his team. "That day," said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face," the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of the Divine Plan into this world."

Monday, November 28, 2011

Look Problems From Others Perspective - Short Story



The train has started moving. Itis packed with people of all ages, mostly with   the working men and womenand young college guys and gals. Near the window, seated a old man withhis 30 year old son. As the train moves by, the son is overwhelmed withjoy as he was thrilled with the scenery outside..
 "See dad, the scenery of green trees moving away is very beautiful"

Thisbehavior from a thirty year old son made the other people feel strange abouthim.

 Every one started murmuring something or other about this son."This guy seems to be a crack.." newly married Anupwhispered to his wife.Suddenly it started raining... Rain drops fell onthe travelers through the opened window. The Thirty year old son ,filled with joy "see dad, how beautiful the rain is .."
Anup's wife got irritated withthe rain drops spoiling her new suit.

Anup,"cant you see its raining, you old man, if Your son is not feelingwell get him soon to a mental asylum..and don't disturb publichenceforth"

The old man hesitated first andthen in a low tone replied "we are on the way back from hospital, myson got discharged today morning , he was a blind by birth, last week onlyhe got his vision, these rain and nature are new to his eyes.. Pleaseforgive us for the inconvenience caused..."
 Thethings we see may be right from our perspective until we know the truth. Butwhen we know the truth our reaction to that will hurt even us. So try to understandthe problem better before taking a harsh action.


Tuesday, November 22, 2011

I Believe


I believe- 
That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.


I believe- 
That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a
while and, you must forgive them for that.




I believe-
That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. 
Same goes for true love.


I believe- 
That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.


I believe- 
That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.




I believe- 
That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them 


I believe- 
That you can keep going long after you can't.


I believe- 
That we are responsible for what  we do, no matter how we feel.




I believe- 
That either you control your attitude or it controls you.


I believe-
That regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there
had better be something else to take its place.


I believe- 
That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, 
regardless of the consequences.




I believe- 
That money is a lousy way of keeping score.


I believe- 
That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time! 


I believe- 
That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.




I believe- 
That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.


I believe- 
That just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.


I believe- 
That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've 
learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.



I believe- 
That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.


I believe- 
That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.


I believe- 
That our background and circumstances may have influenced 
who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.




I believe- 
That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other,  And just
because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.


I believe- 
That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.


I believe- 
That two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.




I believe- 
That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.


I believe- 
That even when you think you have no more to give, when a  
friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.


I believe- 
That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.



I believe- 
That the people you care about most in life are the essence of life.
Tell them today how much you love them and what they mean to you.